Does He Love Me Test: Check Your Perception of the Relationship
The 'Does He Love Me' test is a psychological tool for analyzing your perception of the relationship. It's based on research in nonverbal communication, attachment theory, and John Gottman's work. Important: the test measures your perception, not your partner's actual feelings — the only way to know the truth is through open conversation.
What This Test Measures
Scientific scales for deep analysis of your feelings
Attention and Care
How attentive your partner is to your needs and feelings
Physical Proximity
Body language, touch, eye contact
Emotional Openness
Does your partner share their feelings and vulnerability
Priority and Investment
Does your partner invest time and effort in your relationship
Shared Future
Does your partner include you in future plans
Positive Interactions
Ratio of positive to negative moments
What You'll Get
Detailed results and practical recommendations
Scientific Methodology
The test combines several scientific concepts: attachment theory (Bowlby, Ainsworth), nonverbal communication research (Mehrabian), social exchange theory (Homans), and Gottman's research on predictors of successful relationships. It measures your subjective perception of 6 aspects of loving behavior.
This test helps systematize your observations of your partner's behavior. It's based on psychological research about how people express love: through attention, physical closeness, emotional openness, prioritization, and positive interactions.
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Scientific Sources
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
Gottman, J. M., & Silver, N. (1999). Crown Publishers
Attachment Theory and Close Relationships
Simpson, J. A., & Rholes, W. S. (1998). Guilford Press
Silent Messages: Implicit Communication of Emotions and Attitudes
Mehrabian, A. (1981). Wadsworth Publishing